Because I am a nerd and like frameworks, I decided to go role-by-role and state (in the present tense) something I have, something I am, and something I do for each of them (this is particularly nerdy because this is a takeoff on security as articulated in Sneakers).

And do note that they’re in the present tense even though that’s not accurate to my life at this point, because “the unconscious mind chooses a path of least resistance.” So if you read something in this list that makes you go, “Oh, brother. Sarah is nothing like that!”, take it with a grain of salt, know it’s what I’m aiming for, and tactfully tell me how I could get closer.

My personal mission statement

I am a…

Child of God. I have the attention and love of the Creator of the univers. I am confident and compassionate in His love. I draw others toward Him.

Devoted wife. I have a committed, God-given husband. I am secure and interdependent in my marriage. I serve my husband joyfully and show him my love in daily acts of kindness.

Thoughful friend. I have been blessed by God with meaningful friendships. I am vulerable and available in these relationships. I treasure my friends and show them regularly that I care through small acts and sincere words.

Diligent worker. I have been given many talents by God that can be used to help others. I am responsible and big-picture oriented. I respect my clients’ time, resources, and viewpoints.

Student. I have God-given curiosity and a desire to understand His world. I am inquisitive and open to new ideas. I share what I learn in order to help others.