Wisdom


16
Nov 05

Sensible Thanksgiving

Budget Savvy Magazine sends out occasional “tidbits” [subscription info] that I like a lot. The most recent one has to do with Thanksgiving dinner. Many families take the meal very serious and consider it a failure if there aren’t 20 dishes on the table. Budget Savvy suggests this idea for a little sanity:

Instead, pick one or two desserts and two or three side dishes that are your guest’s absolute favorites and put your heart and soul into them.

They point out that you can’t seriously focus on a bajillion recipes and that you won’t get to enjoy yourself if you try. This is very much common sense advice, but it seems like common sense sometimes flies out the window when family expectations are involved. Save time, money, and sanity by choosing favorites instead of doing everything.


23
Sep 05

A quote I like

Ankesh over at Marketing eYe has an interesting post called Four Ways to Know:

"There are four ways to know much:
live for many years;
travel through many lands;
read many good books (which is easiest);
and converse with wise friends (which is most enjoyable)."

- Baltasar Graci?n
(17th century Jesuit priest and a comprehensive thinker, most famous for his book "The Hero" – written as a response to Niccol? Machiavelli’s "The Prince")

(Want to tickle your mind? Read The Prince and The Hero in the same week!)


23
Aug 05

Job-hunting tip

One of my email newsletters featured this tidbit:

Did you know that a single word can make the difference between landing a job and getting passed over?

That word? Measurable.

A resume highlighting results , detailed in measurable standards , is much more likely to get the jobseeker an interview – and greatly increase the chance of landing that dream job!

Three managers at an upscale department store enlisted my help with their resumes. They wanted to transfer to a newly opened branch of the store, and competition for a spot at this coveted location was fierce.

I asked for their sales volumes (in dollars), percentages of sales quotas met or exceeded, success of new lines introduced in their departments (again, measured in dollar amounts), and their sales rankings nationally. I made this information highly visible in their resumes.

The result? My client called to announce that she and her friends were the only three chosen from the former store for positions at the new one!

[ from Julien A. Sharp , via Early To Rise ]


18
Aug 05

A great free download for simple living

I came across Beth Dargis’s Simplicity Calendar through a newsletter I subscribe to (I love good newsletters!), and it really appeals to me. It’s free if you subscribe to her newsletter (which I suspect will be great).

This reminds me vaguely of several magazines I’ve read over the years. There was something, maybe put out by Focus on the Family, that I had when I was in my early teens that had a monthly calender in the back of each issue with an issue or celebrity to pray for each day (the details are a little fuzzy; am I making this up?).

A more recent magazine is Martha Stewart Living, in which Martha posted “her calender” in the front of each issue. Did she do this while she was in prison? I think it reverted to generic stuff (plant things on the 30th) or maybe disappeared entirely. I’m not faithful enough a reader to know.

Anyway, I’ve downloaded Beth’s calender and it looks great! Today’s idea is “Have the kids start to go to bed earlier”—which is, incidentally, a great idea, having them start the school routine early enough to ease into it, but I don’t have kids. Guess that makes it a free day for me!

I may use some of these as jumping off points for my blogs.


28
Jul 04

What I want to be

I’ve been thinking about this passage since I read it. It’s from The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis, chapter 12:

Some kind of procession was approaching us, and the light came from the persons who composed it.

First came bright Spirits, not the Spirits of men, who danced and scattered flowers—soundlessly falling, lightly drifting flowers, though by the standards of the ghost-world each petal would have weighed a hundred-weight and their fall would have been like the crashing of boulders. Then, on the left and right, at each side of the forest avenue, came youthful shapes, boys upon one hand, and girls upon the other. If I could remember their singing and write down the notes, no man who read that score would ever grow sick or old. Between theme went musicians: and after these a lady in whose honour all this was being done.

I cannot now remember whether she was naked or clothed. If she were naked, then it must have been the almost visible penumbra of her courtesy and joy which produces in my memory the illusion of a great and shining train that followed her across the happy grass. If she were clothed, then the illusion of nakedness is doubtless due to the clarity with which her inmost spirit shone through the clothes. For clothes in that country are not a disguise: the spiritual body lives along each thread and turns them into living organs. A robe or a crown is there as much one of the wearer’s features as a lip or an eye.

But I have forgotten. And only partly do I remember the unbearable beauty of her face.

“Is it? … is it?” I whispered to my guide.

“Not at all,” said he. “It’s someone ye’ll never have heard of. Her name on earth was Sarah Smith and she lived at Golders Green.”

“She seems to be … well, a person of particular importance?”

“Aye. She is one of the great ones. Ye have heard that fame in this country and fame on Earth are two quite different things.”

“And who are these gigantic people… look! They’re like emeralds… who are dancing and throwing flowers before her?”

“Haven’t ye read your Milton? A thousand liveried angels lackey her.

“And who are all these young men and women on each side?”

“They are her sons and daughters.”

“She must have had a very large family, Sir.”

“Every young man or boy that met her became her son—even if it was only the boy that brought the meat to her back door. Every girl that met her was her daughter.”

“Isn’t that a bit hard on their own parents?”

“No. There are those that steal other people’s children. But her motherhood was of a different kind. Those on whom it fell went back to their natural parents loving them more. Few men looked on her without becoming, in a certain fashion, her lovers. But it was the kind of love that made them not less true, but truer to their own wives.”

“And how… but hullo! What are all these animals? A cat—two cats—dozens of cats. And all those dogs… why, I can’t count them. And the birds. And the horses.”

“They are her beasts.”

“Did she keep a sort of zoo? I mean, this is a bit too much.”

“Every beast and bird that came near her had its place in her love. In her they became themselves. And now the abundance of life she has in Christ from the Father flows over into them.”

I looked at my Teacher in amazement.

“Yes,” he said. “It is like when you throw a stone into a pool, and the concentric waves spread out further and further. Who knows where it will end? Redeemed humanity is still young, it has hardly come to its full strength. But already there is joy enough in the little finger of a great saint such as yonder lady to waken all the dead things of the universe into life.”